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Big girl pants on

It was a pretty shitty day yesterday. As you know, I’m looking for work and I had an interview a few days ago (you can read about it here ). As you also know, I’m looking for a lodger – and I’d found one (and you can read about that here…

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Getting There

The other day, I fancied a day out. As a volunteer for a well known heritage charity, I get free entry into all of our properties – great for someone on a budget. All I have to do is get there. I fancied going to Quarry Bank – I see signs…

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The Hunt for Gainful Employment

The Big Day I had an interview this afternoon. I run a business with my husband (you remember, the one that walked out of the marriage back in February). This is severely career-limiting, as you can imagine, so I need to find some sort of…

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How do you sleep at night?

What is it with sleep? It’s the only thing that gets harder to do the harder you try to do it. I don’t always sleep terribly well. Maybe it’s to be expected, what with the husband moving out an’ all. Some nights, I just don’t sleep at all.…

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What was the question again?

I’ve been trying to avoid talking about Brexit. But I’m watching the EU Election results, and I’m sad. I believe in democracy, I believe everyone has the right to have their opinion listened to. I believe everyone’s vote counts. But –…

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There was an old lady…

I found an old lady. It’s Dementia Action week (20th – 26th May). About a year ago I was privileged to be able to access Dementia Friendly training via the place that I volunteer. I can’t recommend the training highly enough. It was run by…

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Rubber Chicken

I’ve had to cut back enormously on what I used to spend, after my husband walked away from our marriage – here’s what I’m doing. In that post I promised a blog post devoted entirely to Rubber Chicken – and here it is. For those who don’t…

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Physically fit at 58

The time has come to renew my gym membership. This means that I’ve been going to the gym for a year now. Time to take stock. It’s not cheap, but I go every other day, come hell or high water, so the cost-per-session is tiny. I’ve managed…

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Technical difficulties

I have experience. I have skills. I have qualifications. But what I don’t have, right now, is a job. Well, that’s not quite true. I do have a job – I’m a director of a limited company. But it’s a limited company that I run with my husband…

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It’s OK to be happy

This is my third attempt at writing this. I normally write, think about it for a bit, edit, then publish. But this one is causing me grief (absolutely no pun intended). It’s Mental Health Awareness Week. I’ve never been depressed in my…

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Husbanding my resources (oh the irony!)

I’m cutting back. You’ve heard of Extreme Ironing? This is Extreme Economising. But also – I’m determined to keep on eating healthy food. This is my way of taking control. So I’ve made myself some rules – here they are Rule 1 – using up…

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Doing the Deed (Poll)

I’ve decided to change my name by Deed Poll. It feels like the right thing to do, all things considered. I guess the expected thing would be to go back to my maiden name, but I have a problem with that. Quite apart from the problem I have…